Is cheating is a choice?
Let’s talk relationships and cheating, we know what it is, we’ve seen stories on it on the internet and on our social media platforms.
Mr somebody cheated on Mrs somebody and got caught in the process, it perversely provides entertainment for us because we have to take sides.
3 Reasons Why Cheating is a choice
Cheating is a deliberate action taken to satisfy your greediness without a thought to the consequences of that action.
So for those who say that cheating is a mistake, I’m here to shake your table.
Being in a relationship is a choice
Deciding to be with someone, to share yourself with another individual is your choice entirely to make. So deciding to forsake your agreement and get into an entanglement with someone else is not a mistake or an accident, Slipping on a wet floor and falling is an accident but cheating is a choice.
Its easy to talk about things you don’t want or want with your partner. I mean talking is important, things you like help your partner see them and do them.
Let’s say this relationship you’re in isn’t working out, it maybe the little things like your partner don’t look sexy enough, talks with their mouth open or is a total slob.
You could have straightened things out by communicating your frustrations, so saying you were tired of the situation and wanted a change, you could have left.
But no na, you decided to have your cake and have it. I mean cheating can be avoided too.
People tend to over look this part, being disciplined is one way to avoid all the temptations of cheating.
You hear So many excuses like;
- I know my partner is cheating too.
- I was drunk and didn’t know what I was doing.
- I went to see a friend or an ex and we got caught up in the moment.
- Or, I got carried away, cause of the problems I been having lately.
Discipline is important for everyone in a relationship and also for self respect. Heard some say they cheat cause their partners don’t give them enough money or sex?! I mean you either try and work that out or leave, than all the stress.
Set priorities straight, discipline yourself and make better decisions.
So in the end ehn, it all comes down to the fact that the choices one makes determines if one cheats or not.
what you think? Is it a mistake or a choice?
Drop comments, let’s shake tables.