There are so many reasons why people are single, some people choose to be and others have other reasons.
Some reasons why you’re still single;
#1- Personal decision:
People decide to stay single due to many reason – it may heartbreak or something else, it may also be that they are channeling their energy into growing first and feel like a partner would complicate so many things.
Some are insecure, I mean they still lack confidence, they feel uncertain about themselves all the time and feel they are not ready for a partner so they choose to stay single. People are insecure due to many reasons some may lack confidence, some might be dealing with their past experiences.
#3- still hung up on your ex:
Scared of letting go? I mean you can’t find a partner and move on if you don’t let go of the past – tbh, so many people would be in a relationship and compare their ex to their partners.
If you’re still hung up on your ex, you don’t need a new relationship, what you need is time to heal and let go.
You can’t move on if you don’t let go
#4- you’re not your spec’s spec
People you like don’t like you?, on my previous post on “Are you your specs spec’ , in that post you’ll see that you need to take care of every aspect of you, your character, body, mind and so on.
You don’t want to find that one and not be the one.
#5- high expectations
People already design their partner in their heads which is nice but they do it with really high expectations and forget that love can happen to anyone at anytime and when they see people that love them and would be good partners but don’t meet up with all their expectations, they choose to be single and they’d get disappointed.
All these are reasons why so many single, but we still have individual reasons..
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