Your reaction to what happens to you is key because it shapes your immediate future.
Let’s define the word
Reaction:
This is the way you respond to certain things that has affected you, this could be a positive or negative reaction.
It is possible to get to know ones personality from the way they react to things
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As an individual: personally you’ll find that we humans react to different situations in different ways – I mean it is key to know your temperaments because reactions goes beyond things you say or what you do, its also what you feel. For instance someone gives you a million reasons why you’re not worth all your achievements now how you react is all that really matters. Are you letting someone’s opinion define you?
As a worker: In your place of work, losing a job, or getting a new one comes with different reactions in different situations – for instance loosing a job could make one give up on almost everything In life, and this is understandable but how you react to this is key. One day you’ll tell the story of how you lost the job but everyone would expect to hear what your next step was.
As an entrepreneur: In this is case it is important to note that there will be ups and downs and when those trying times comes,what you do or how you handle this situations is what makes you a true entrepreneur.
As a celebrity: it is important to be in control of your reactions as a public figure, Your reactions are all the public really care about not what happened. Take for example the Funke Akindeles House Party Incident, her reaction showed remorse for breaking the law.
As a partner: In relationships it is essential to take your time before reacting, this is one of the reasons so many partnerships, relationships and home don’t last. Understanding your partner is very key in this case.
As a student: failing a course could break you and make you feel like quitting, but something else is gravely important passing the course. How are you reacting to this?
There are other case scenarios but know it is important to not let what happens determine how you react.
- Take charge of your emotions, reassure yourself, there could be even more heartbreaking scenarios other than the ones listed above, but what’s important is how much you are in control of you.
- Its okay to fall sometimes and show human qualities but then again, that’s not the end.
- Pick up the pen draw another plan.
- Make another schedule.
- pick up the pieces,make that relationship work.
- Yes! send that apology text.
- Rebrand.
- Lastly reassure yourself because that’s where true strength lies.
You can do it, always try to be in control!